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Blanche Wong

Blanche Valerie Wong (Travers)

Friday, August 11th, 1933 - Wednesday, September 25th, 2019
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Blanche Valerie Wong (née Travers), 86, of Springfield, Missouri, passed away September 25, 2019, at TRU Hospice Care Center in Longmont, Colorado due to complications associated with a long-term illness. Blanche’s rich and storied life is one that can only be written out of the tragedy of World War II Europe and the opportunities that followed for so many in Post-War America.

Born in 1933, in Belfort, France, to Armand Eugene Travers and Clara Lea Wehrli, Blanche grew up on her grandparent’s vineyard in the south of France and later moved to Grenoble with her mother and younger sister Marie-Hélène. After the Nazi’s invaded France in 1940, young Blanche and her family would be separated from each other and their home. Over the course of the war, they faced years of displacement and poverty. These experiences formed young Blanche, which she later detailed in a self-published autobiography entitled Letters to My Children.

After the war, Blanche and her family moved to Switzerland to be with her mother’s relatives and it was in Switzerland, a country “always close to her heart,” where she found stability, growth, and a love of art. She studied fashion design in Zurich and received her “Damen Schneiderin” certification, after which she moved to Lausanne, Switzerland to work for Alice Haute Couture. It was in Lausanne where she met and married her love and life partner Dr. George Wong, Jr., from Alamosa, Colorado, who was studying medicine at the University of Lausanne.

The love story between a beautiful, young French woman and a Chinese American war veteran, in Post-War Europe, seems improbable and is one that can only be an American story. Letters written in French between young Blanche and George after he moved back to the United States to start his medical residency, which now seem too personal to read, clearly had an impact on both. George and Blanche eloped and married in Montreux, Switzerland in 1958. Shortly after, Blanche immigrated to the United States to be with George and his parents in Los Angeles, California. They had a second and “proper” Chinese wedding ceremony in Los Angeles.

In the United States, Blanche found the home and family for which she so longed. After moving across several states in the West and Mid-West, Blanche and George eventually settled in Springfield, Missouri, where George started his Neurology practice and Blanche raised six children—George (Francois), Natalie, Jean-Marc, Jean-Paul, Mimi, and Gabby. She will be remembered by friends and the larger community of Springfield for her generosity, grace, beauty, and unyielding faith. She was an active member of Holy Trinity Catholic Church for over 50 years where she served as a eucharistic minister, a minister of the sick, and a member of the Daughters of St. Francis de Sales. Later in life, she rediscovered her passion for art and became active in a local painting and art guild.

But it is the impact on her children’s life that is more keenly felt, and the role of “maman” which she believed was her most important vocation. Her children will remember her self-cultivated love of history, geology and culture, the impact of the intellectual discussions she nurtured at the dinner table, the gentle balance she brought to George’s focus on discipline and school, her unexpected, playful wit, and her reminders to have the courage to think differently.

She is preceded in death by her parents and her husband. She is survived by all six of her children, 19 grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren: Dr. George F. Wong, III, his wife Vicki Wong of Springfield, Missouri and their two children, Raymond Wong (wife Cecilia) of Raleigh-Durham, North Carolina and Alexandra Wong (son David) of New Orleans, Louisiana; Dr. Natalie Wong Calhoon, her husband Mike Calhoon of St. Louis, Missouri and their children, Nikki, Billy and Madi Berberich and Annie Calhoon of St. Louis, Missouri, and Allie Johnson (husband Josh) of Kansas City, Missouri; Dr. Jean-Marc C. Wong, his wife Vania Cordeiro DeSousa Wong, and their children Anabela and Valentin Wong of Boulder, Colorado and Jean-Marc’s daughter Kate Magrane (husband Robby and daughter Elise) of New York City; Jean-Paul Wong, his wife Heather Wong, and their three children, Travers, Isabelle, and Amelie Wong, of Prairie Village, Kansas; Dr. Mimi Wong, her wife Leesa Logan, and their children, Audrey Wong and Kyle and Kaysie Logan of Cherry Hills Village, Colorado; and Gabby Wong, her husband Glenn Johnson, and their children, Michael, Andrew, and Neve Johnson of Arlington, Virginia. As well, she is survived by her sister Marie-Hélène (Danielle) Wenk of Switzerland, her nieces and nephew, Marie-Jo Cobos, Thierry Wenk, and Christine Droux (all of Switzerland), and their families.

A Funeral Mass will be held at 10 a.m. Friday, October 4, 2019 at Holy Trinity Catholic Church, 2818 E. Bennett Street in Springfield, under the care and direction of Herman H. Lohmeyer Funeral Home. Visitation will be held one hour prior to service time from 9-10 a.m. at the church. Burial will follow at Hazelwood Cemetery.

The family suggests contributions to the Hospice Foundation of The Ozarks, P.O. Box 9226, Springfield, Missouri 65801.

Permanent online condolences may be shared at www.hhlohmeyer.com.
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Service Details

  • Visitation

    Friday, October 4th, 2019 | 9:00am - 10:00am
    When
    Friday, October 4th, 2019 9:00am - 10:00am
    Location
    Holy Trinity Catholic Church
    Address
    2818 E. Bennett Street
    SPRINGFIELD, MO 65804
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  • Funeral Mass

    Friday, October 4th, 2019 | 10:00am
    When
    Friday, October 4th, 2019 10:00am
    Location
    Holy Trinity Catholic Church
    Address
    2818 E. Bennett Street
    SPRINGFIELD, MO 65804
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
    Officiant
    Father Patrick Nwokoye
  • Interment

    Friday, October 4th, 2019 | 11:30am
    When
    Friday, October 4th, 2019 11:30am
    Location
    Hazelwood Cemetery
    Address
    1642 E. Seminole
    Springfield, Missouri 65804
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frances bledsoe

Posted at 06:28pm
Natalie, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. May God wrap you in peace. -carol miederhoff bledsoe
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Marc Rohr

Posted at 01:43pm
Gabby & family. Sincere condolences on the loss of your mother. I only got to know her briefly years ago, but she and your dad were always welcoming and kind. It’s easy to see how she made such a positive impact on both her family and the many people she encountered over her lifetime.
Marc Rohr


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Dr. Nail

Posted at 08:44am
I have known Blanche for many years. She always had a smile on her face and a charm that was endearing. She will be missed.
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Michael Flecker

Posted at 12:56pm
My sincere condolences to the entire Wong and Travers families. Although I never met Blanche, I've gotten to know her daughter, Gabby, quite well. It is clear that the thoughts about Blanche's mothering are indeed spot on. She will obviously be missed by many, but is now with our Lord Jesus Christ and living an enjoyable life here on earth. I pray for peace and grace upon this family. Very truly, Mike Flecker
 
GW

Gabrielle Wong Posted at 07:43pm

Mike, thank you so much for your kind words and support. So lucky to get to work with such great colleagues. Gabby

Jane Bingham

Posted at 06:06pm
My condolence to the Wong Family. I met Mrs. Wong and three of her children while working for the Pediatrician Dr. Zahn. I was a Young, new RN and had been working for Dr. Zahn for a few months. Not being experience, I remember your Mother bringing the three (at that time) to the office for checkups and updating of immunizations. Your Mother was so kind, gentle and must have known how inexperience I was with children. She spoke gently and lovingly to the three and told them I was going to help Dr. Zahn. THAT made my day. She trusted me with her children and I learned that a Mother Bear and her cubs can be gracious and caring, (which sometimes wasn't always the case!) The opportunity of meeting your Mother and three of the little Wongs will always be in my memory as a touching part of my Nursing career. I am now 76 and retired from Nursing Dec. 2018. Thankyou for allowing me to share a fond memory of a beautiful woman and Mother.
With Gratitude,
Jane Bingham RN
 
GW

Gabrielle Wong Posted at 07:41pm

Ms Bingham, thank you so much for the kind condolences and your warm memories of our mom. Very sweet. Gabby & the Wong Family
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